Jan 14, 2019 08:18 PM
(Jan 14, 2019 05:46 PM)Syne Wrote: [ -> ]Asexually-reproducing species can become sexually-reproducing due to environmental stresses, and the subsequent need to adapt faster, without any time to evolve a sexual desire at all.
If the sex drive had no basis in reproduction, we could not show evidence of sexual selection.
Are you saying sexual selection doesn't occur? O_o
No but society informs me on what I should and shouldn’t seek. Without that outside influence, shit just happens.
The Biological Urge?
But for both sexes, what are the hard-wired biological processes that create the desire for a child?
Here’s the truth that’s not talked about — For women, there is no real evidence to support the notion that there is a biological process that creates that deep longing for a child. And the same for men; there’s no real evidence linking biology to the creation of parental desire.
So what’s behind the “urge” if it’s not biological?
Similar to the origins of what I call “Fulfillment Assumption” in The Baby Matrix , the answer first goes back to pronatalist notions that were created about parenthood generations ago, when society needed to encourage people to have lots of children. In addition to pushing the idea that parenthood was “the” path to fulfillment in life, another had to do with the idea that “normal” women experience an instinctual longing from within to have a child, and if they didn’t there was something wrong with them. This belief is part of the larger pronatal “Destiny Assumption” that was created many years ago, that, like the Fulfillment Assumption, has stuck long after its usefulness.
The deep feelings of wanting to have a child have their roots in a learned desire from strong, long-standing social and cultural pronatal influences — not biological ones. And we’ve been influenced so strongly for so long that it just feels “innate.”
Here’s the truth that’s not talked about — For women, there is no real evidence to support the notion that there is a biological process that creates that deep longing for a child. And the same for men; there’s no real evidence linking biology to the creation of parental desire.
So what’s behind the “urge” if it’s not biological?
Similar to the origins of what I call “Fulfillment Assumption” in The Baby Matrix , the answer first goes back to pronatalist notions that were created about parenthood generations ago, when society needed to encourage people to have lots of children. In addition to pushing the idea that parenthood was “the” path to fulfillment in life, another had to do with the idea that “normal” women experience an instinctual longing from within to have a child, and if they didn’t there was something wrong with them. This belief is part of the larger pronatal “Destiny Assumption” that was created many years ago, that, like the Fulfillment Assumption, has stuck long after its usefulness.
The deep feelings of wanting to have a child have their roots in a learned desire from strong, long-standing social and cultural pronatal influences — not biological ones. And we’ve been influenced so strongly for so long that it just feels “innate.”
Syne Wrote:No, some of your parents' traits pass to your children. His traits wouldn't unless you've been engaging in incest. Basic biology, deary.
Traits from our parents that we both share, duh! Try reading a little before you post.
Syne Wrote:That very thing is highly correlated with addiction, depression, and suicide. There are many things that make people happy but are not healthy.
Lack of acceptance is a common denominator for both happiness and health.
Syne Wrote:How are higher rates of intimate partner violence caused by homophobia? O_o
Again, social stress probably contributes, but if you're talking about men, even you know the answer to that.
Syne Wrote:Other factors, such as the elevated rates of sexual abuse victimization among the LGBT population discussed in Part One, may also account for some of these mental health disparities, as research has consistently shown that “survivors of childhood sexual abuse are significantly at risk of a wide range of medical, psychological, behavioral, and sexual disorders.”
It's not a sexual disorder but our need for love and acceptance is strong. I think you're more uncomfortable with the idea that our sexual preferences might be more fluid than we originally thought or maybe you're just bored. Try playing a video game or something. I have to workout if I want maintain my quota.
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