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The benefits & downsides of being extraverted + Expect to be happy in your 50s & 60s

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All over the world, people have mid-life crises and then get happier.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/...0s-and-60s

KEY POINTS: Becoming happier after midlife is a pattern that shows up in human brain scans as well as research with primates. One study found that people who focus on family have poorer functioning as they age than those who value friendship highly. Staying engaged with cultural, social, and physical activities is the path to happiness as one ages... (MORE - details)


Here are the benefits - and downsides - of being extraverted
https://www.bps.org.uk/research-digest/h...xtraverted

EXCERPTS: . . . according to a UK study that hit headlines [...] new mothers put extraversion above even intelligence and conscientiousness on their list of most wished-for traits in their children. But is this personality trait really all that it’s cracked up to be?

A massive 2019 review of 97 meta-analyses of studies exploring links between extraversion scores and workplace success concluded that the trait “confers a pervasive and robust advantage”: compared with introverts, extraverts were more motivated to do well, got on better with others, felt more positively about life (including challenges at work), and got better employer evaluations.

[...] Extraverts tend not only to do better at work, but also to be happier. But can pretending to be an extravert make you happier, too? According to some recent work, the answer is a qualified “yes”. In 2019, we reported on a US study that encouraged people to be more extraverted for a week. They were asked to be as “talkative”, “assertive”, and “spontaneous” as possible — and they reported feeling more positive emotions during this period. (When they were asked to spend a week being more introverted — to act more “deliberate”, “quiet”, and “reserved” — their wellbeing took a hit.)

However, another study found that for people who are particularly introverted, acting “like an extravert” — which in this case meant trying to be more excited, lively and enthusiastic — can be so exhausting that it actually increases negative emotions...

[...] Though extraversion is associated with all kinds of benefits and advantages, these do have their limits. As we reported earlier this year, we don’t trust extraverts any more than we trust introverts, for example. In fact, according to this study, only one of the Big Five personality traits was linked with perceived trustworthiness: agreeableness. Other research goes even further, linking extraversion with a negative perception…. (MORE - missing details)
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Magical Realist Online
I'm am definitely introverted and tend to want to get off by myself as soon as possible after the socializing is over. That's not to say I don't like people. I love the random interactions I have with people, often complete strangers. It is a chance to exercise compassion and kindness in a world too often devoid of it. It's like the alone time recharges my social energy or something.
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Quote:Staying engaged with cultural, social, and physical activities is the path to happiness as one ages.

That's my main motivation for moving to and living in Portland for the past 24 years. Everything nature could offer, from forests to rivers to mountains to the coast, as well as a strong "big city" bohemian vibe, keeps me on the generally happy side of life. Stage, film, concerts, lectures, bookstores, museums, and coffee shops provide ample opportunity for socializing against a lively arts and culture context.
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(Aug 18, 2022 03:41 AM)Syne Wrote: Portland families leaving the city to escape homelessness and crime
Even when I was there, some twenty years ago, the homeless were pretty prevalent.

Homelessness is the number one problem of Portland. All the candidates for governor and Congress are running on it. It's a complicated issue. I don't know what the solution is. They are building homeless villages with tiny houses for them to live in. But I suspect the homeless don't want to do that. They enjoy the freedom of endless free camping by the interstate. How do you help people that don't want your help?
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(Aug 18, 2022 07:23 PM)Magical Realist Wrote:
(Aug 18, 2022 03:41 AM)Syne Wrote: Portland families leaving the city to escape homelessness and crime
Even when I was there, some twenty years ago, the homeless were pretty prevalent.

Homelessness is the number one problem of Portland. All the candidates for governor and Congress are running on it. It's a complicated issue. I don't know what the solution is. They are building homeless villages with tiny houses for them to live in. But I suspect the homeless don't want to do that.  They enjoy the freedom of endless free camping by the interstate. How do you help people that don't want your help?

You start by not helping people who don't want to be helped. That includes welfare, food stamps, homeless shelters, food banks, etc.. You police loitering and camping on public grounds. While I was there, I saw police try to rouse someone sleeping in the park. When they didn't rouse, they left them alone. They can live like they do (while usually affording drugs or alcohol) because they're getting their basic needs met some way.

Portland was all-in on the defund police crap, creating the increases in crime.
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