(Dec 20, 2021 03:34 AM)Syne Wrote: [ -> ] (Dec 20, 2021 02:30 AM)Secular Sanity Wrote: [ -> ] (Dec 20, 2021 02:12 AM)Syne Wrote: [ -> ]So what's so wrong with your idea of "a good life" that shouldn't be applied to others? See, you have to believe it is lacking if it can't be applied generally.
My heterosexuality is a good example. My atheism is another.
Again, what's wrong with those? Don't you believe that your heterosexuality is natural? Or that you have good reason to be an atheist?
You see, superimposing your values doesn't require you to impose them on others. Do you believe that theists are wrong? If so, that's you superimposing your values. Do you believe that homosexuality is natural? Again, that's you superimposing your own values.
Unless, of course, you are completely agnostic on orientation and belief in god.
Quote:Yeah, you too, SS. Have a good one. 
(Dec 20, 2021 01:52 AM)Secular Sanity Wrote: [ -> ]Have a good one, little guy.
You too, cow.
If there’s no puppeteer, as CC said, you can cut the strings. You can choose what your values dictate. You can decide what really matters to you. Values aren’t goals though. You can’t complete values. It’s an ongoing commitment.
As for anxiety, there is something to what
Jeff Bridges said, if things didn’t matter to you, you wouldn’t feel anxious. If we reduced all the anxiety in mice, they would be eaten. It doesn’t mean that we can’t take something to reduce the anxiety, if it allows you to live the life you want without experiential avoidance. We all have unavoidable pain and discomfort but if we stifle these intense negative emotions, we don’t get the same intensity for the happy ones.
You don’t find the sweet spots in the big house, car, job, and it’s usually not even within the big moments. It’s usually found in some seemingly insignificant moment through a connection with humans, animals, or nature. So, in that sense even Jeff Bridges remark about going out and getting drunk with friends [that’s where the best shit comes from, man] was on point.
What happen to immortal cow? At least that one was creative.
In Nietzsche’s Motely Cow town, there’s a tightrope walker that’s making cautious moves between two towers. The jester is impatient and urging the tightrope walker to hurry along. “What business have you here between the towers? You should be lock away in the tower because you block the way for the one who is better than you.” The tightrope walker fell, and he said that he thought the devil would eventually trip him up and drag him off to hell. Zarathustra assured him that there was no devil and no hell, but then he realized that it was he, who was between two towers—a fool and a corpse.
The jester snuck up on him and whispered that he should leave. Too many here hate you. The good and just hate you and think you’re their enemy. The believers hate you and think you’re a danger to the multitude.
Look at the faithful. Whom do they hate the most? The ones who break their tablets of values, but he is the creative one. Fellow creative ones are who he seeks.
He hoisted the corpse on his back and started on his way. He eventually realizes that he needs living companions who will follow him.
Hence, because they want to follow themselves.
Happy holidays,
little guy Syne.