We admire these do-gooders. We just don’t want to date them.

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https://www.vox.com/future-perfect/2019/...do-gooders

INTRO: Picture this: You’ve worked hard all year. You’re burned out. Every atom in your brain and body is crying out for a relaxing vacation. Luckily, you and your partner have managed to save up $3,000. You propose a trip to Hawaii — those blue waves are calling your name!

Just one problem: Your partner refuses, arguing that you both should donate the money to charity instead. Think how many malaria-preventing bednets $3,000 could buy for kids in developing countries!

You might find yourself thinking: Why does my partner seem to care more about strangers halfway around the world than about me?

A philosopher would tell you that your partner may be a utilitarian or consequentialist, someone who thinks that an action is moral if it produces good consequences and that everyone equally deserves to benefit from the good, not just those closest to us. By contrast, your response suggests you’re a deontologist, someone who thinks an action is moral if it’s fulfilling a duty — and we have special duties toward special people, like our partners, so we should prioritize our partner’s needs over a stranger’s.

According to research out of the Crockett Lab at Yale University, if you’re put off by the consequentialist’s anti–Hawaiian vacation response, you’re not alone. Neuroscientist Molly Crockett has conducted several studies to determine how we perceive different types of moral agents. She found that when we’re looking for a spouse or friend, we strongly prefer deontologists, viewing them as more moral and trustworthy than consequentialists.

In other words: When we’re looking for someone to date or hang out with, extreme do-gooders of the consequentialist variety need not apply. (It’s worth noting that deontologists can be hardcore do-gooders, too, just in their own very different way.)

Crockett’s studies raise a lot of questions: Why do we distrust consequentialists despite admiring their altruism? Are we right to distrust them, or should we try to override that impulse? And what does this mean for movements like effective altruism, which says we should devote our resources to causes that’ll do the most good for people, wherever in the world they might be?

I reached out to Crockett to discuss these issues. A transcript of our conversation, edited for length and clarity, follows... (MORE)
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Personally I am very wary of charities. I don't mind the food bank only because I can bring food instead of money. About the only time I'm charitable with money is when I tip someone for a job well done. Try going to Cuba and see how much resort employees love that tip and how much their services improve after.

Anyway theres good and bad with anything you do. If a consequentialist kibosh's my want to travel to Hawaii then it hurts people employed in all facets of the travel/tourist industry. If I go to Hawaii then I am hurting the charity's employees/recipients. It's a saw off. Wouldn't stop me from wanting to date one.

I like what my sister did while on sabbatical in China. Purchased her gov't assigned interpreter the books ($1000 Cdn approx) she needed to earn a university degree, didn't give her the money, enjoyed her trip, did a good deed and was rewarded when that person showed up in Canada to personally thank her years later. A win all the way round.
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