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Why do atheists eat babies? + Spiritual struggles & health + Religious actions study

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Secular Sanity Offline
I have a question for you guys. Zinjanthropos mentioned the priest that was diddling young teenage girls.  A women said that she was molested by a catholic priest, but that her irrational fear of hell was more tormenting than her memory of being molested.  Do you think that an irrational fear of hell is psychologically damaging?

"Being fondled by the priest simply left the impression (from the mind of a 7 year old) as ‘yucky’ while the memory of my friend going to hell was one of cold, immeasurable fear. I never lost sleep because of the priest – but I spent many a night being terrified that the people I loved would go to Hell. It gave me nightmares."

The Catholic Church has made numerous attempts to counter this irrational fear, but as you can see from the article below, it’s still there and lingering in the back of their minds.

Should We Lose the Fear of Hell?

The pope’s denial of the traditional Christian understanding of hell is one more step in a progressive rejection of the very real and very horrible picture of hell revealed in the Bible. The temptation to "air-condition hell," as one Roman Catholic magazine put it, is constant in a secular world that rejects hell as outdated and promises some kind of vague harmonic convergence in the afterlife.

In popular culture, hell has gone the way of the hula hoop. It simply doesn’t fit the modern secular mind. As British novelist David Lodge once remarked, "At some point in the 1960s, hell disappeared. No one could say for certain when this happened. First it was there, then it wasn’t. Different people became aware of the disappearance of hell at different times."

Though Americans poke fun at "hellfire and brimstone" sermons, you are not likely to hear one in most pulpits, where hell has been conveniently domesticated for popular consumption. In liberal Protestantism, the traditional concept of hell is simply denied and "demythologized." Among some evangelicals, the preferred practice is simply to preach the promise of heaven and avoid hell at all cost.

Polls consistently reveal most Americans believe in heaven — and believe they are going there. Far fewer believe in hell, and almost no one believes he or she is headed there. Modern Americans are quite certain their democratic deity wouldn’t do anything so rash as to consign their neighbors to eternal punishment, much less themselves.

The pope’s most serious revision of the biblical understanding of hell comes at the same issue. "Hell is not a punishment imposed externally by God, but the condition resulting from attitudes and actions which people adopt in this life," he said. “So eternal damnation is not God’s work but is actually our own doing.”

John Paul’s statements are hardly revolutionary in the context of modern theology, but his decision to make such a public revision of the traditional teaching is highly significant. Just a few days prior to his statement a prominent Jesuit theological journal published the same argument. Clearly, a message has been sent.

We should note that Jesus had more to say about hell than about heaven, and he spoke of hell as a place of punishment where the wicked are "cast," and where the fire is not quenched (Mark 9:44,47). He also warned of the judgment coming when he would separate “the sheep from the goats.” To those who bear his judgment, he will pronounce this judgment: "Depart from me, accursed ones, into the eternal fire which has been prepared for the devil and his angels" (Matthew 25:41).

Evidently, hell is indeed a punishment imposed by God, and the dire warnings in Scripture to respond to Christ in faith — while there is time — make sense only if hell is a very real place of very real torment.

As several modern commentators have noted, hell would be horrible enough if only for the absolute absence of God. But the Bible does not leave the matter there, nor should we. Our attempts to evade the biblical doctrine of hell weaken our understanding of the Gospel and confuse a world desperate for a word of biblical reality.

We are rightly warned to fear hell and to flee the wrath to come. Good advice comes from John Chrysostom, one of the greatest preachers of the early church: "Let us think often of hell, lest we soon fall into it."
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#12
C C Offline
(Jan 22, 2017 05:49 PM)Secular Sanity Wrote: I have question for you guys. Zinjanthropos mentioned the priest diddling young teenage girls.  A women said that she was molested by a catholic priest, but that her irrational fear of hell was more tormenting than her memory of being molested. [...] "Being fondled by the priest simply left the impression (from the mind of a 7 year old) as ‘yucky’ while the memory of my friend going to hell was one of cold, immeasurable fear. I never lost sleep because of the priest – but I spent many a night being terrified that the people I loved would go to Hell. It gave me nightmares."


Strangely, at least in terms of the mindsets people may have had in former generations, that might not be entirely surprising. I came across a weathered sex education textbook from the 1950s (apparently college level rather than high school), that had a sub-chapter devoted to childhood experiences.

In contrast to today's early classroom conditioning of elementary students being made aware of and learning to recognize predator situations... It was a tad astonishing how lackadaisical the book's attitude was toward molestation from the victim's personal POV. One study example concluded that a girl who was violated by an older cousin wasn't really traumatized over the incident until after she was exposed to her parents (and any other public social factors) expressing dismay, protective alarm, and taboo shock over it.

Which is to say, back in the days when the "next-door" and family / relative category of predation crept much more under the conscious legal radar, an academic establishment that was then myopically preoccupied with casting off the yoke of repressive traditions seemed to advocate a kind of ho-hum, sub-crisis stance (or minus the bevy of trained counselors waiting in line with pseudo-supportive "How do you feel about this?" queries). That section in the bygone manual could have almost been summed-up as: "Too much focus and over-emphasis on these events could psychologically blemish a child / minor. Their growing curiosity about anatomical differences is natural and they will occasionally encounter and participate in these classic 'let's play doctor' type of interactions with other youth and adults."

Quote:Do you think that an irrational fear of hell is psychologically damaging?


Every group seems to supply "fears to incubate" as a benefit to its members / consumers (as an inducement to huddle beneath the parameters of its umbrella). Conspiracies, future disasters / impending threats, evil movements, human monsters, propaganda-oriented liars, the enemy within or without, etc.

Recollecting a documentary that covered the prevalence of suicide and suicide attempts even back to well before contemporary times... There were some elderly seniors interviewed about when they considered killing themselves as teenagers during the 1920s and '30s. Most of them recounted a gullible "fear of going to hell" as what prevented them.

When it came to those with little background in or receptivity to formal reason, and had limited self-discipline (or who had temporarily abandoned the latter during the angst and rebellion of adolescence), a bogey-man was sometimes the convenient or quickest tool for the Old School of Civilization and Lack of Sophisticated Therapy Services to keep them from doing something stupid. Carried in on into adulthood, though, it could become an instrument for any number of assorted domestic abuses, political agendas, and personal rises to power.
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#13
Secular Sanity Offline
Yeah, you're right, C C.  I’ve read the same thing in regards to rape victims.  

There are a lot people that feel that you should believe in god "just in case."

The suicide thing, though, while the thought of hell may prevent some, the thought of heaven entices others.

"Let us think often of hell, lest we soon fall into it."

I don’t think the contemplation of hell is psychologically healthy.  Death maybe, but not hell.

From Terror to Joy

"As in previous studies, thinking about one’s death did not produce any increase in conscious negative emotions. But it did activate what appears to be a nonconscious emotional coping response. We found that contemplating death caused subjects to complete ambiguous word stems with relatively more positive emotion words, an indication of heightened accessibility of emotionally positive associations.

These effects were specific to emotionally positive material: No changes were observed for emotionally negative stimuli. Thus, thinking about death fosters an orientation toward emotionally pleasant stimuli.

Death is a psychologically threatening fact, but when people contemplate it, apparently the automatic system begins to search for happy thoughts. Moreover, this occurs immediately and outside of awareness, a fact that may contribute to people’s well-documented failure to predict how quickly they will recover from upsetting events. We have shown that the common response to contemplating death is a nonconscious orientation toward happy thoughts—and that this response is far contrary to intuitive predictions of a conscious reaction of emotional distress."
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#14
Zinjanthropos Offline
Quote:I don’t think the contemplation of hell is psychologically healthy.
 
....because you think of the physiological end of the health spectrum and from what I've read, pain goes along for the ride also. If there's anything I don't like, it's thinking about how painful (physical) something is going to be. Yet I wonder what happens if you stub your toe real bad in Heaven, does it hurt?
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elte Offline
(Jan 22, 2017 05:49 PM)Secular Sanity Wrote: I have a question for you guys. Zinjanthropos mentioned the priest that was diddling young teenage girls.  A women said that she was molested by a catholic priest, but that her irrational fear of hell was more tormenting than her memory of being molested.  Do you think that an irrational fear of hell is psychologically damaging?

It occurred to me that things pertaining to the supernatural are too speculative to justify thinking about them much, since it hinders thinking about important things in life.  That means fear of hell, or even just thinking about it, is better left behind.
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#16
Zinjanthropos Offline
If priests et al are molesting young kids then why should we be afraid of hell, because they sure don't seem to be? Kids and parents alike hold these church leaders in some kind of trust. How do the religious diddlers convince the kids that what is being done to them is justified or OK? I think Hell is the last thing on a cleric's mind in these situations.
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#17
C C Offline
(Jan 23, 2017 05:07 PM)Zinjanthropos Wrote: If priests et al are molesting young kids then why should we be afraid of hell, because they sure don't seem to be? Kids and parents alike hold these church leaders in some kind of trust. How do the religious diddlers convince the kids that what is being done to them is justified or OK? I think Hell is the last thing on a cleric's mind in these situations.


Kind of reminiscent of a Mafia hit-man once interviewed on "60 Minutes" who declared that he still considered himself to be a Catholic; or Jerry Garcia (of the Grateful Dead) asserting such when still alive. Diane Keaton's grandmother was a practicing Catholic despite not believing "in hellfire damnation, Jesus or heaven for that matter".

Jewish atheists and irreligious Jews even retain their ethnic or cultural identity. Similarly, I suspect a good chunk of Catholics (including a significant fraction of the clergy) just keep up the protocol and ceremony like costumed fans attending a Star Trek convention.
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#18
Zinjanthropos Offline
Hey, I did some digging and found the answer to a query I made in Post #14. For those who believe The Bible, Rev 21.4 covers pain in Heaven....there isn't any Huh.

Quote:
He will wipe every tear from their eyes, and there will be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain. All these things are gone forever."

I don't know.....sounds kind of convenient. No tears of joy either? WTF?

Quote:I suspect a good chunk of Catholics (including a significant fraction of the clergy) just keep up the protocol and ceremony like costumed fans attending a Star Trek convention.

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#19
Secular Sanity Offline
(Jan 23, 2017 08:39 PM)Zinjanthropos Wrote:
Quote:And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.

I don't know.....sounds kind of convenient.

It's true, though. There’s no temple therein and the gates shall not be shut at all by day or night, and the names written on the gates of tomorrow are written in the book of life. 

"The kingdom is spread out upon the earth, and people don't see it."

Nevermore for Evermore

To and from
thy kingdom come
but only for some

Sweet sweet sorrow
you cannot borrow
a bit of tomorrow

Wash this confusion
from a cosmic illusion
demand a nihilistic conclusion

A cultivated field
called to yield
bound and sealed

Weaved through the dead
a brief strand of thread
pushes ahead

There’s distance between
you’re a sight unseen
words on a screen

Out of this lot
a thought
is sought

I seek the drafter
of creative laughter
not the hereafter

Through the streams
of all my dreams
or so it seems

I will adorn
the unborn
today I mourn

All at once I can see
the absurd, the pointless, the arbitrary
the loss of you, the loss of me

Time to go behind the veil
and tell the tale of hell
for those who bid the world farewell
Zinjanthropos Wrote:No tears of joy either? WTF?

I love this guy.  He's a new little Timothy Leary.


https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/Yb-OYmHVchQ
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#20
Zinjanthropos Offline
Guy looks like our Prime Minister.

Sorry folks but after those vids I feel the need to wax philosophic. Not something I like doing so I dislike being in this position.....

Is there confusion between Life and the Life Form? I think of the life form as an individual being whereas Life is all encompassing, containing every living being that there is. I mean if a life form dies, life doesn't pack its suitcase. As long as the conditions permit it, life marches on. 

So when I walk through a meadow I don't dwell or get teary-eyed on the fact that every living thing I encounter, including me, will some day be dead. Emotions are just a developed trait like a compound eye, all geared to maintain Life, surviving, evolving, etc.  Life obviously doesn't know what's around the corner and if just one evolved characteristic can keep it going following an apocalyptic event then hey, job done. Life in some ways behaves like one of its forms, except that those forms are its evolved traits. A subtle difference there perhaps?
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