
http://ask.metafilter.com/292132/Why-do-...ndividuals
EXCERPTS: . . . I hope I explained this clearly. This is my research area, although I generally focus on political deviance but the process is the same. I'm happy to send you some articles where I elaborate on this. It is hard for those us of that grew up in a culture where individual needs usually trump family needs to understand how this system takes over the brains of those who live in it. Imagine every choice you make and your internal cost/benefit analysis also having to factor in the impact on your family. It is unsurprising that people in such systems are very reluctant to take risks. My own research focuses on the circumstances under which people in such systems WILL take risks. And I will tell you, it takes incredible bravery to deviate - whether it be dissenting politically or being openly gay. Everything and everyone is telling you not to and punishes you when you do. And then you're alone. Your family shuns you. And remember, you need these people to access resources, so you're doubly screwed.
[...] I would challenge the initial assumption that "some [cultures] do not". Even cultures that literally have an accepted "third gender" tradition tend to take poor care of/kill those people at really high rates....
EXCERPTS: . . . I hope I explained this clearly. This is my research area, although I generally focus on political deviance but the process is the same. I'm happy to send you some articles where I elaborate on this. It is hard for those us of that grew up in a culture where individual needs usually trump family needs to understand how this system takes over the brains of those who live in it. Imagine every choice you make and your internal cost/benefit analysis also having to factor in the impact on your family. It is unsurprising that people in such systems are very reluctant to take risks. My own research focuses on the circumstances under which people in such systems WILL take risks. And I will tell you, it takes incredible bravery to deviate - whether it be dissenting politically or being openly gay. Everything and everyone is telling you not to and punishes you when you do. And then you're alone. Your family shuns you. And remember, you need these people to access resources, so you're doubly screwed.
[...] I would challenge the initial assumption that "some [cultures] do not". Even cultures that literally have an accepted "third gender" tradition tend to take poor care of/kill those people at really high rates....