Problem or Solution?

[Zinjanthropos]

Not sure.

Accept that as I get older, things will pass me by. For some things it will be a why didn’t we think of that moment or a definite WTF? This is somewhere in the middle I guess.

Talking with a neighbor who is 82 with a 20 yr old grand daughter. I met her last year, she seemed alright, pretty looking. He tells me she’s gained well over 100 lbs since then. Said he was lecturing her on the health aspects of being overweight but also how men would find it unattractive and she’d have trouble finding a mate. Then he said she surprisingly tells him that men are no problem, she just goes online to Fuck Buddy and there’s plenty of guys who will have sex with large women and theres no strings attached. One call, he shows up, they have sex and everyone goes back to what they were doing prior to call.

Naturally I had to Google F**k Buddy. Well there isn’t a website that I know of but plenty of articles and someone made a short movie with that title. I’m thinking I’m missing something and then it dawned on me. F**k Buddy acronym is FB, same as the other FB known as Face Book. Am I right? Ingenious using Face Book for this purpose?

[stryder]

Not sure.

Accept that as I get older, things will pass me by. For some things it will be a why didn’t we think of that moment or a definite WTF? This is somewhere in the middle I guess.

Talking with a neighbor who is 82 with a 20 yr old grand daughter. I met her last year, she seemed alright, pretty looking. He tells me she’s gained well over 100 lbs since then. Said he was lecturing her on the health aspects of being overweight but also how men would find it unattractive and she’d have trouble finding a mate. Then he said she surprisingly tells him that men are no problem, she just goes online to Fuck Buddy and there’s plenty of guys who will have sex with large women and theres no strings attached. One call, he shows up, they have sex and everyone goes back to what they were doing prior to call.

Naturally I had to Google F**k Buddy. Well there isn’t a website that I know of but plenty of articles and someone made a short movie with that title. I’m thinking I’m missing something and then it dawned on me. F**k Buddy acronym is FB, same as the other FB known as Face Book. Am I right? Ingenious using Face Book for this purpose?

Well if they were using Facebook it would mean that people would have access to potentially family information, so it would have to be a group within FB if that was the case. It's not the first or last place such things likely occur, they use to be a lot of jokes about the Craigslist listings. Then theres sites like Onlyfans etc (I mention them but I don't have any personal experience of such things since I don't really both with online related meetups/romances etc... not for a long while at least)

[confused2]

Could be that hearing her grandfather talking about sex unsettled her a bit - she might have panicked and said the first thing that came into her head.
A hundred pounds of fat is A problem but it probably (armchair expert opinion) isn't THE problem. Going in with "You gotta look cute." might .. pretty likely.. not have been the smartest move. Has she been attacked/raped/other and this is her response?

[Syne]

Sadly, that's the reality nowadays. Due to social media, even below average women get attention from many men. And since men will often compromise finding a pretty or fit woman in exchange for easy access to sex, she's likely to find many men who are out of her league willing to have no-strings-attached sex. This makes many women overestimate their ability to retain a man long-term, as they confuse short-term sexual interest for any interest in commitment. This has the added detriment of disincentivizing any self-improvement on her part.

[C C]

[...] Naturally I had to Google F**k Buddy. Well there isn’t a website that I know of but plenty of articles and someone made a short movie with that title. I’m thinking I’m missing something and then it dawned on me. F**k Buddy acronym is FB, same as the other FB known as Face Book. Am I right? Ingenious using Face Book for this purpose?

I assume there are countless dating apps to download, and even most of the non-raunchy ones probably don't show up in an app store unless some default child safety protocol is switched off. (Or maybe a lot of them are only available at porn nexuses?)

Since condoms do nothing to protect from spit, perspiration, and other fluids exchanged during various tongue acts not involving the penis (and what dorks actually use vaginal dental dams -- an item clearly indicated as uncool by all the throat tumors out there)... Then the users of the apps have got to be randomly sprinkled with the whole spectrum of STDs from common to uncommon.

Just as it was disclosed to Christian Troy in the Nip/Tuck episode "Burt Landau" that his blood tested positive for "an antibody that is present in people who have had a large number of sexual partners" -- thereby disqualifying him from being a kidney donor for Liz Cruz's transplant.