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INTRO: In most relationships, partners either explicitly or implicitly agree that their relationship is monogamous and faithfulness is requisite. When someone cheats, they violate this agreement and risk the health and stability of their relationship. Considered a serious relationship transgression, infidelity triggers substantial distress and is an often-cited cause of why people divorce or break up (Amato & Privati, 2004).

Infidelity can jeopardize a relationship, but it's still common. A review of infidelity research suggested approximately 20 to 25 percent of married couples navigate at least one instance of cheating throughout their relationship (Fincham & May 2017). This same review discusses changes over time in who cheats; today, women are "closing the gap," and their rate of infidelity is nearing that of men.

Are women's reasons different from men's for why they cheat? What uniquely motivates women to risk their relationship well-being with an extradyadic affair?

10 Reasons for Women's Infidelity. Recent research sought to learn why women cheat (Murphy et al., 2024). These scholars studied the responses of 116 women (and 138 men) across multiple countries, all of whom had previously engaged in infidelity. Women endorsed the following reasons for their infidelity:.. (MORE - details)

COVERED:

They're unhappy in their current relationship (64.66 percent).

They see their partner as disengaged (22.41 percent).

They want revenge (15.52 percent).

They're bored or seeking something new (12.93 percent).

They're sexually dissatisfied (8.62 percent).

They have the opportunity, are under the influence, or let foolishness lead the way (7.76 percent).

They want validation (6.90 percent).

They know their relationship is ending (6.03 percent).

Their relationship is long-distance (3.45 percent).
(Aug 19, 2024 05:43 PM)C C Wrote: [ -> ]https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blo...10-reasons

INTRO: In most relationships, partners either explicitly or implicitly agree that their relationship is monogamous and faithfulness is requisite. When someone cheats, they violate this agreement and risk the health and stability of their relationship. Considered a serious relationship transgression, infidelity triggers substantial distress and is an often-cited cause of why people divorce or break up (Amato & Privati, 2004).

Infidelity can jeopardize a relationship, but it's still common. A review of infidelity research suggested approximately 20 to 25 percent of married couples navigate at least one instance of cheating throughout their relationship (Fincham & May 2017). This same review discusses changes over time in who cheats; today, women are "closing the gap," and their rate of infidelity is nearing that of men.

Are women's reasons different from men's for why they cheat? What uniquely motivates women to risk their relationship well-being with an extradyadic affair?

10 Reasons for Women's Infidelity. Recent research sought to learn why women cheat (Murphy et al., 2024). These scholars studied the responses of 116 women (and 138 men) across multiple countries, all of whom had previously engaged in infidelity. Women endorsed the following reasons for their infidelity:.. (MORE - details)

COVERED:

They're unhappy in their current relationship (64.66 percent).

They see their partner as disengaged (22.41 percent).

They want revenge (15.52 percent).

They're bored or seeking something new (12.93 percent).

They're sexually dissatisfied (8.62 percent).

They have the opportunity, are under the influence, or let foolishness lead the way (7.76 percent).

They want validation (6.90 percent).

They know their relationship is ending (6.03 percent).

Their relationship is long-distance (3.45 percent).

Over 150% if I include the missing reason. They all sound basically the same.

It’s like 2.5 tons of male sea lion blubber battling it out on the beach, the fems wait to see who wins. Perhaps there’s some biological need for the gals to reproduce with the strong ones, even if only pretending. Strength could be anything from resources to physical to mental. It’s better for the species. For the losers, time to accept being second fiddle and move on.

Not to worry, plenty of fish in the sea. Wonder how many guys wish they caught their wives cheating just so they have a reason to get out of a relationship, probably easier.