Scivillage.com Casual Discussion Science Forum

Full Version: Philosopher who survived 10 suicide attempts explains "How Not to Kill Yourself"
You're currently viewing a stripped down version of our content. View the full version with proper formatting.
The podcast is embedded at the top of the page. Click it to listen to the interview.
https://www.npr.org/2023/04/05/116810482...ncy-martin

INTRO: Clancy Martin has lived most of his life with two incompatible ideas in his head: "I wish I were dead – and I'm glad my suicides failed." Martin has survived more than 10 suicide attempts and he wrote his new memoir – How Not to Kill Yourself: A Portrait of the Suicidal Mind – especially for those who have attempted suicide, or struggle with suicidal thoughts.

"I am tremendously relieved that I did not die as a consequence of any of my suicide attempts," Martin says. "I'm so relieved that I am alive."

Martin says John Draper, who served as director of The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, told him that anyone who survives a suicide attempt has a "superpower" — because they understand what it's like to be suffering in that way and are now in a position to help others going through something similar.

"So much of what drives the suicidal mind is the stigma of suicide, the shame of suicide, of having made an attempt of being afraid to reach out for help, of being afraid to talk to someone else," Martin explains. "And so the more we can talk about suicide openly, the more suicidal people we can help."

Martin is the author of over a dozen books on philosophy and has translated works by Nietzsche and Kierkegaard. He's a professor of philosophy at the University of Missouri in Kansas City and Ashoka University in New Delhi, India... (MORE - details)

INTERVIEW HIGHLIGHTS:

On asking his college students whether they've thought about suicide

On his top piece of advice: Get rid of the gun

On how he is liberating himself from suicidal thinking

On existentialist philosophy and suicide

On the Tibetan prayer "May we be happy without hope"

On calling or texting the mental health/suicide hotline 988
(Apr 7, 2023 04:31 PM)C C Wrote: [ -> ]The podcast is embedded at the top of the page. Click it to listen to the interview.
https://www.npr.org/2023/04/05/116810482...ncy-martin

INTRO: Clancy Martin has lived most of his life with two incompatible ideas in his head: "I wish I were dead – and I'm glad my suicides failed." Martin has survived more than 10 suicide attempts and he wrote his new memoir – How Not to Kill Yourself: A Portrait of the Suicidal Mind – especially for those who have attempted suicide, or struggle with suicidal thoughts.

"I am tremendously relieved that I did not die as a consequence of any of my suicide attempts," Martin says. "I'm so relieved that I am alive."

Martin says John Draper, who served as director of The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, told him that anyone who survives a suicide attempt has a "superpower" — because they understand what it's like to be suffering in that way and are now in a position to help others going through something similar.

"So much of what drives the suicidal mind is the stigma of suicide, the shame of suicide, of having made an attempt of being afraid to reach out for help, of being afraid to talk to someone else," Martin explains. "And so the more we can talk about suicide openly, the more suicidal people we can help."

Martin is the author of over a dozen books on philosophy and has translated works by Nietzsche and Kierkegaard. He's a professor of philosophy at the University of Missouri in Kansas City and Ashoka University in New Delhi, India... (MORE - details)

INTERVIEW HIGHLIGHTS:

On asking his college students whether they've thought about suicide

On his top piece of advice: Get rid of the gun

On how he is liberating himself from suicidal thinking

On existentialist philosophy and suicide

On the Tibetan prayer "May we be happy without hope"

On calling or texting the mental health/suicide hotline 988

I think it's healthy to ponder one's suicide now and then. Not that you're going to do it. Just what it would be like, and how being alive is so much better than that. Life is precious, and can slip away like a phantom if we let it. Hold on to it. Celebrate the audacious and bold gift of being in this world!

“The thought of suicide is a great consolation: by means of it one gets through many a dark night.”― Nietzsche